Encounters with healthcare and social care
Generally speaking, older LGBTI people often find it difficult to feel trust in healthcare and social care and social services. This can be traced back to historical stigmatisation and pathologisation within the healthcare system. Trans people in particular have a special relationship with the healthcare system, as they need to go through an arduous process to access trans care. This process can be marked by binary gender norms and geographical limitations, which can affect their access to this care. For older trans people, this may also mean that they encounter ageist ideas during the trans care investigation. Multiple studies show that previous experiences of homophobia and/or transphobia in their contacts with the healthcare system and elder care lead to some older LGBTI people refraining from seeking the care they need. It is known that in some instances, some couples in same-sex relationships choose to avoid accompanying their partner to healthcare appointments to avoid discrimination.
Being open is often considered an important strategy in encounters with healthcare and elder care. However, there is individual variance in how open one is, and trust in the healthcare professionals they encounter is crucial to dare to come out. Older LGBTI people feel that healthcare and social care are often marked by heteronormative and cis-normative assumptions that render them invisible and result in perceived discrimination. A lack of knowledge about LGBTI identities and the right language to use in the healthcare system reinforces this invisibility.
Regarding elder care, there are concerns about the lack of knowledge about LGBTI issues, as well as fears to be poorly treated due to their sexuality or gender identity, both by staff and other residents. Among those who have experience of elder care, the research shows that discussions about sexuality and gender identity are rare and that responsibility for raising LGBTI perspectives in this encounter rests largely with the social care recipients themselves. Older LGBTI people are also worried about the lack of privacy in elder care, where staff often knock on the door and enter without waiting for an answer, limiting the possibility of engaging in intimacy and sexual activity.
Relationships, networks and LGBTI contexts
Older LGBTI people’s relationships and networks greatly affect their well-being and health. International quantitative research has shown that LGBTI people with social support and a sense of belonging in their communities have better health and lower levels of depression and stress. Studies show that older LGBTI people in Denmark and Sweden often have less contact with their families and friends compared to heterosexual people of the same age. They also feel lonelier and lack emotional support to a greater extent. Many older LGBTI people stress the importance of ‘chosen families’, meaning those they have created in the form of important and meaningful relationships outside of their biological families. Friends often play a key role in these chosen families. Their chosen families provide social and practical support in everyday life.
Legal aspects are important, especially when older LGBTI people do not have legally recognised partnerships or marriages. This may mean that their chosen family lacks legal rights, and biological families can become involved in important decisions regarding their healthcare and estates. Wills and documents that set out LGBTI people’s wishes are therefore important.
For older trans people, there have been challenges linked to how these contexts have developed and often excluded them or set limits on how they were permitted to identify themselves. Differences between contexts that targeted homosexuals and those that targeted trans people have also affected older individuals’ experiences of belonging and community. The contexts that LGBTI people have found important during their lives often remain significant as they get older, and these relationships can serve to form chosen families that go beyond traditional family ties.