6.3 Restorative Child Friendly justice in the Nordic Countries – scope of application, practices, challenges and potential
The principles of RJ align closely with the Convention on the Rights of the Child and its goal to minimize punitive measures for children and young people. RJ is widely regarded as a form of justice that is child-friendly, based on values such as voluntariness, active participation, and shared ownership of both the process and its outcomes. Central to RJ is its flexibility and ability to adapt to the unique needs of each individual.
The third workshop was led by Senior Advisors Karen Kristin Paus and Frøydis Heyerdahl at the National Mediation Service Norway, and the aim was to address questions of what is needed to safeguard the key principles and values of RJ regarding children and young people. The workshop addressed how Nordic co-operation can be beneficial to further development of RJ practices with children and young people.
RJ after offences for children under the age of criminal responsibility
This group explored RJ practices involving children involving children 14 years old or younger. Following the discussion, participants suggested topics for further, in-depth conversations within the Nordic network. Restorative approaches with this age group tend to be less formal, as the criminal justice system is not involved. The benefits for the children were emphasized, along with the importance of further developing and expanding these practices.
Participants expressed a strong interest in learning from other countries' experiences and best practices in implementing restorative processes for younger children. A recurring concern was the challenge adults face in granting agency to the children. There was a recognized need to better understand how to engage parents and caregivers in supporting, rather than dominating, the process.
Upholding restorative values was seen as essential, even though parental involvement can complicate matters. Parents, driven by concern, may unintentionally take control of the process rather than allowing the child to handle the situation with support. It's important to balance the needs of both children and adults, ensuring one does not take away focus from the other.
Restorative practices were identified as a promising way to counteract societal trends of violence and negativity, offering children opportunities to learn constructive, cooperative responses to polarization, crime, and bullying.
In conclusion, restorative processes for this age group show great promise. However, additional research and practitioner training are needed. Professionals should be equipped to facilitate child-friendly dialogues, build trust, and ensure children understand and voluntarily consent to the process.
RJ in combination with penal sanctions for children over the age of criminal responsibility
This group discussed whether RJ is applicable to all types of crime and concluded that it is important to distinguish between cases where mediation serves as the main form of punishment or part of the sentence, and those where it functions as a complementary or alternative measure. Some research indicates that RJ can be highly effective even in very serious offenses. However, these references often relate to mediation used as a supplement or integrated component of the broader justice response, rather than as the sole consequence.
The group continued to explore how to determine whether a case is appropriate for mediation. One significant concern was ensuring participant safety and preventing power imbalances – especially when minors are involved. The term “suitable” itself sparked debate: What qualifies a case as suitable? And who has the authority to decide?
The group also stressed the importance of thorough preparation, which may be time-consuming but is often critical to upholding the core principles of RJ. This need for deliberate groundwork can sometimes conflict with external pressures to resolve cases quickly and efficiently.
Ultimately, mediators must carefully assess, in dialogue with the parties, whether facilitating a direct meeting is safe and aligned with RJ values – or whether an alternative approach to dialogue would be more appropriate. Several dilemmas arise in this process. Some participants shared that they rely on highly experienced mediators for complex cases, and others mentioned using structured checklists as part of their assessment.
It’s important to examine cross-sectoral cooperation throughout the various stages of the RJ process. Without effective collaboration between criminal justice and other relevant agencies, referrals of cases may be lacking. Continued cooperation is just as essential following the RJ or mediation process. Children involved often require support not only after the process to manage their agreed-upon responsibilities, but also before and during the proceedings.
Mediation in criminal cases: Prosecutors may refer or divert cases to the Norwegian Mediation Service (Konfliktrådet), provided both the offender and victim agree. In these cases, mediation serves as the punishment – or as an alternative to traditional penalties. If the parties reach an agreement (e.g., an apology, guidance on future interactions, or more substantial arrangements), the mediation service informs the prosecutor that the case is closed, and the offender faces no further consequences. The prosecutor cannot impose a new penalty for the same offence. If no agreement is reached, or the offender fails to meet its terms, the case is returned to the prosecutor for further action.
Youth punishment and youth follow-up: These involve a tailored action plan for the youth, which includes RJ components. RJ may entail meeting the victim, mending other significant relationships, and fostering trust in individuals and key institutions such as the police and schools. Recent amendments to Norwegian legislation ensure that RJ elements in these penalties adhere to the general principles of RJ.
The group concluded by exploring how these discussions could be expanded within the Nordic context. Emphasis was placed on the value of sharing information. Several participants expressed interest in learning more about how RJ is implemented across different countries – both in general and specifically for young people. There was also an interest in exchanging details about frameworks, guidelines, and best practices. One idea raised was to further discuss commonalities and differences between national approaches.
RJ practices in communities related to conflicts and crime prevention in civil society
In Denmark, RJ practices are implemented in residential areas, communities, shops, and libraries. Additionally, SSP-Samrådet – an interdisciplinary collaboration between schools, social services, and the police – organizes mediations involving young children. Schools also use mediation, and experience shows that integrating it into school activities has a positive impact on reducing conflicts.
In Finland, mediation is practiced in schools and includes peer mediation as well as mediation between parents and teachers. Street mediation and community-based mediation are also available.
In Norway, the Trygg læring (Safe Learning) initiative facilitates school mediation, while the Red Cross organizes street mediation. A form of Family Group Conferencing, known as Familieråd, is available through child protection services.
Sweden does not currently implement RJ in schools, but it offers “Dialogue for Peace” training for young people. Starting in 2026, civil society organizations will begin working with youth through restorative circles.
In Ireland, four organizations provide training in RJ. Implementation occurs through local multi-agency cooperation and ad hoc initiatives. RJ conferences can be arranged in response to conflicts.
This group called for a united Nordic effort to strengthen RJ through concrete actions: creating a shared digital platform for exchanging RJ resources; organizing themed virtual meetups to share best practices and success stories; launching a youth-led peer mediation network to foster cross-border cooperation; connecting Denmark’s SSP and Norway’s SLT (Samordning av Lokale rus og kriminalitetsførebyggande Tiltak) models to enhance community coordination; inviting Nordic policymakers to witness RJ sessions firsthand through an Observer Program; presenting a joint RJ statement to the Nordic Council of Ministers; and initiating collaborative research on RJ’s long-term impact to inform policy and secure sustainable funding – altogether forming a collective push to amplify RJ’s reach and resilience across the region.
How to ensure that a restorative process is child-friendly
Children and young people seek the same dignity and respect as adults. A non-judgmental, compassionate approach – especially during mediation – helps them feel safe and heard. Consistent empathy, reflective practice, and involving parents can reveal broader dynamics influencing behaviour. Children are often open to change when treated with trust and respect, and they benefit from opportunities to take responsibility and resolve conflicts. However, they must not bear the burden alone: adults play a crucial role in shaping their environment. Emotional education and restorative practices in schools are essential to equip children with tools for growth, healing, and non-violent conflict resolution.
Concluding remarks
To sum up the content of this workshop participants stressed the agency and respect of children and their voices. Further cooperation was considered vital, especially to develop practices of RJ also outside the criminal justice system and for children under the age of criminal responsibility.